My husband had a vasectomy without telling me. He’s only forty-two years and we have three boys. I wanted a girl. We were hoping our last born, the third one would be a girl but he also came as a boy so we agreed we would give it another try and see how it goes
We even agreed that no matter what we get, we’ll stop right there because we can’t keep going hoping for something we may never have. I was on his iPad when I saw a conversation between him and a hospital known for such things.
They had fixed a date and the date was three weeks ago. “Maybe he didn’t do it,” I said to myself.” “If he did, I would have known by now.”
I went through another set of messages from another number and he was asking questions that suggested he had done it and was experiencing some discomfort. He was asking if it was normal.
I was shocked. What would make him do such a thing without consulting the woman he lives with? I went to him with the iPad for answers. The first question he asked me was, “Who asked you to go through my messages?” Followed by, “What is wrong if I’d done it? Is the joystick yours?”
He made me feel like I lack the right to know what my husband does with his reproductive health. Instead of a conversation, it turned into an argument. He had the final say, “I have done it. If you don’t understand it, you can hug a transformer.”
I bring it up and he gets angry. It makes me feel there’s more to it than just the procedure. Usually, men are scared to go through that procedure. They ask, “What if this marriage doesn’t work and I must remarry?” If he could brush off these concerns and go all out for it, then there’s a reason.
I’m thinking he has children elsewhere hence the lack of fear of vasectomy.
Maybe three here and two elsewhere. It could even be that he has a girl child somewhere. This is the thought that keeps me awake at night. Is it reasonable to entertain such fear? Anaa, I’m going crazy? It’s weird, don’t you think so?
Happy birthday to the love of my life, Oluremi, Tinubu pen love letter to wife at 63
My trusted partner in every venture, and the one special person who has consistently filled my days with joy and laughter over 36 amazing years.
Today is not only a day to mark another year of your purposeful life but a beautiful reminder of the journey we have embarked upon together.
Through all these years, we have shared in the uncertainty of dangerous, but principled stands against tyranny. Many can not fully appreciate the sacrifices you made for us during that harrowing, dark era, but I do and always will.
We have experienced adventure, love, and laughter. We have celebrated victories, and we have wrestled down the monster of defeat, and we have done all in an inextricable bond.
Our bond has only grown stronger through thick and thin, and our love and commitment to each other has only deepened with time.
Thank you for being the ever-present sunshine that brightens my darkest hours.
Your kindness, your wisdom, and your inner and outer beauty continue to amaze me more each and every day.
As we celebrate your birthday, I want you to know how profoundly grateful I am for your serene presence in my life.
I look forward to many more years filled with even greater laughter and love as we continue on this path together, which God Almighty had predestined for us.
May the Good Lord, whom you serve with all your heart, continue to bless you with good health and longevity.
Happy birthday, Iyawo Mi!
Some Of Those Making Allegations Against Naira Marley Are Using This Opportunity To Revive Their Careers – Reno Omokri
Former presidential aide, Reno Omokri has reacted to the allegations levelled against Marlian Records owner, Naira Marley, following the demise of his former signee, Mohbad.
According to Omokri, there is a possibility that some of those making allegations against Naira Marley are using this opportunity to revive their careers or settle old scores with him.
He shared this in a post on his Instagram page while appealing to Nigerians to wait for the outcome of the investigations being carried out over Mohbad’s death
Police Will Look Into Alleged Negligence Of MohBad’s Petition Against Sam Larry – FPRO
The Police Force Public Relations Officer, Olumuyiwa Adejobi, has said the force will look into the petition made by the late singer Ilerioluwa Aloba aka MohBad against music promoter Samson Balogun, aka Sam Larry.
A petition written by late MohBad over an alleged threat to life by Sam Larry and others, surfaced online days after the singer’s death.
The petition alleged that Sam Larry and 15 others stormed a video shoot where the deceased and another artiste, Zlatan Ibile, were working, and wreaked havoc.
Sharing a copy of the petition on his X page on Tuesday, the FPRO tweeted, “We will look into the alleged police negligence on this case.”
The Lagos Annex, Force Criminal Investigation Department of the Nigeria Police Force, Zone 2, Alagbon, to whom the letter was addressed, had revealed that it had invited Sam Larry and others, following the receipt of the June 27 petition, but MohBad was absent.
Commenting on this claim, Adejobi added, “We also need to know why he declined the invitation or appearance at the office. So many things to find out and clarify. And all will be done.”
MohBad’s death was announced on Tuesday, September 12. He was 27.
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